We haven’t lost our manners—we’ve lost our awareness.
In a world where heads are down and phones are always within reach, it’s easy to miss what’s happening around us. Etiquette doesn’t disappear overnight; it erodes quietly when we stop noticing others. Good manners begin long before we speak. They begin with awareness.
We don’t need more rules—we need more presence. When we look up, listen fully, and engage intentionally, manners return without effort. Etiquette isn’t about perfection; it’s about paying attention.
1. Look Up
Presence is one of the rarest forms of respect today—and one of the most powerful.
2. Read the Room
You can’t read the room if you’re reading your text messages.
3. Make Eye Contact
Connection first, communication second. You’re welcome!
4. Listen to Understand, Not to Respond
Ask yourself: are you truly listening, or simply waiting for your turn to speak?
5. Respect the Micro-Moments
Small cues—a pause, a glance, a shift in tone—often say what words won’t.
6. Let Silence Linger
Not every moment needs commentary. Clarity often emerges from quiet.
7. Mind Tone and Timing
Good etiquette isn’t just what you say—it’s when and how you say it.
8. Honor How People Feel
Feeling heard is one of the most overlooked forms of respect, and one of the fastest ways to build trust.
9. Be Where You Are
Whether in conversation, at a table, or in a room—show up fully. Awareness is the foundation of every good manner.
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