Don’t be the guest who never gets invited back or becomes notorious for poor manners. Follow these 9 essential etiquette tips to be a welcomed and cherished guest:
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RSVP Alone But Bring a +1
If you RSVP’d just for yourself, showing up with an uninvited guest puts your host in an awkward spot.
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Send a List of Dietary Restrictions
It’s a private dinner party, not a restaurant. Unless your allergies are severe, gracefully eat around items you cannot consume.
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Be Overly Food-Centric
If you’re vegan, vegetarian, gluten-free, etc., it’s courteous to decline politely or offer to bring a dish you can enjoy without fuss.
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Arrive Late (or Too Early)
Arriving 15 minutes after the stated time is ideal. Early arrivals can disrupt preparations, and late arrivals inconvenience the entire party.
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Be Demanding About Drinks
Don’t make special drink requests like, “I only drink dry champagne or Burgundian wine.” Be gracious and accept what’s offered.
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Arrive Without a Hostess Gift
Even if the host insists “just bring yourselves,” always bring a small token of appreciation. It’s basic courtesy.
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Overstay Your Welcome
Know when the party is winding down and leave gracefully. Pay attention to social cues.
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Skip the Thank You
Failing to call or send a thank-you note the next day is impolite. Just do it!
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Leave a Mess in the Powder Room
Keep the bathroom tidy for other guests. Inform your host if essentials like toilet paper need restocking.
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